by Guest Author | Feb 14, 2020 | hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
Something happened to me when I started watching porn. I didn’t notice the change right away, but my wife could sense that something odd was going on. There was an unfamiliar look in my eyes, and I was starting to drift away from her emotionally. Allie and I had...
by Beth Denison | Jan 30, 2020 | hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
On July 19, 2019, at a Six Flags amusement park in Bowie, Maryland, roller coaster passengers spent over two hours stuck at the top of the ride. Eventually, all of the passengers were rescued unharmed. Many have described the aftermath of sexual betrayal as an...
by Jen Ferguson | Jan 17, 2020 | hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
Surrender is hard. Surrender is especially hard when you’re a type-A, emotional caregiver who struggles with anxiety. Hello, perfect storm. I want to fix everything. I want people to be happy and healthy and free. My first instinct is to evaluate and plan. I...
by Jen Ferguson | Dec 4, 2019 | hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
We’ve been married long enough that I can see the signs. I can immediately sense when my husband isn’t fully present–when he’s hiding. I know when he’s stressed, sometimes before he even recognizes it. I can tell when he’s empty and depleted, grasping at things that I...
by Beth Denison | Oct 29, 2019 | hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
Forgiveness is such a beautiful concept. We certainly welcome it when we have made a mistake, acted inappropriately, or hurt someone else. But forgiveness becomes difficult when we are the ones who have been severely wounded. C.S. Lewis said it like this: “Everyone...
by Beth Denison | Jul 23, 2019 | hap, Help Others Restore Integrity
Discovering the sexual betrayal of a spouse is one of the most traumatic experiences anyone can suffer. There are so few people with whom the wounded spouse can confide. Imagine this devastated individual mustering the courage to share the story with a close friend or...
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