by Jen Ferguson | Apr 16, 2020 | pyh, Rebuild Your Marriage
I remember when celebrity and actress Jennifer Lawrence was the victim of account hacking, and a variety of pictures of her in various stages of undress were downloaded and then distributed without her permission. When asked about why she had these pictures, her...
by Ella Hutchinson | Sep 17, 2019 | pyh, Rebuild Your Marriage
In this article I will use female pronouns for the betrayed spouse and male pronouns for the addict, because that is the focus of my work. Also, parts of this article focus on unique ways men react to shame. However, in no way do I mean to imply that sex addiction is...
by Jen Ferguson | Aug 14, 2019 | pyh, Rebuild Your Marriage
In the first few moments after I found my husband Craig’s digital footprints that led me to his favorite porn sites, all I could see, feel, and speak revolved around rage. I was embarrassed (because clearly, I was not satisfying), angry (did we not just speak...
by Guest Author | Dec 3, 2018 | featured, pyh, Rebuild Your Marriage
“My husband is the sex addict; why should I feel shame?” For most healthy outsiders, the logical answer is, “You shouldn’t.” But for most spouses of sex addicts, the feeling of shame clings to us like a body suit. Shame can result from an overwhelming assault on our...
by Coach Laura | Oct 22, 2018 | featured, pyh, Rebuild Your Marriage
That Time When Couples Therapy Didn’t Help I’ll never forget the day I walked out of therapy during early recovery. I left our therapist’s office crying, screaming, and slamming the door, vowing never to return. It’s safe to assume I was not pleased with how the...
by Jen Ferguson | Aug 22, 2018 | pyh, Rebuild Your Marriage
If you had tried to convince me 11 years ago that I needed to respect my porn-addicted husband, I would have laughed in your face. Not the “funny ha-ha” kind of laugh. More like a sneer with words dripping with venom: I’ll respect him when he’s worthy of my respect....
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