by Jen Ferguson | Mar 7, 2019 | featured, hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
The day I stood at the altar, I wish someone would have told Craig and me that there are three tools every marriage needs to survive—grace, truth, and love. I wish someone would have also told us that these three tools must be used all at the same time—in...
by Carl Stewart | Feb 25, 2019 | featured, hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
“What are you looking at?!” Lisa shrieks while her eyes bulge and her body pulses with adrenaline. Doug looks up from his phone like a deer caught in the headlights. Panicked, he tries to reassure his wife that he really was just checking email. Lisa grabs the phone...
by Guest Author | Jan 24, 2019 | featured, hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
A growing trend in our culture is the separation of sex from intimacy. Perhaps the most obvious example of this is the “hook up” culture, described by Dr. Lisa Wade in her book The Great American Hookup. Dr. Wade explains that sex has been so divorced from...
by Jen Ferguson | Jan 21, 2019 | featured, hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
If there are certain things you shouldn’t tell your spouse about your porn addiction, it must mean there are important things s/he does needs to know. First and foremost, that you are using pornography. Confessing to your spouse, either before or after you’ve been...
by Guest Author | Jan 3, 2019 | featured, hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
In Part One and Part Two of this series on boundaries and marriage, we’ve told you about our messy journey to recovery. Although 15 years ago we almost lost our marriage to pornography addiction, this year we will celebrate 38 years of marriage. One of the basic parts...
by Coach Joi | Dec 19, 2018 | featured, hap, Rebuild Your Marriage
It seems the Hallmark-like images of holiday celebrations and Christmas romances are everywhere this time of year. For women married to active pornography users, these perfect Christmas card images can hijack our ability to regulate the trauma of betrayal with their...
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